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Here is a typical
example:
Standing in a
supermarket queue, it’s been a long wait but only one customer
to go before you make it to the cashier. Wait, what was that
sensation? An unpleasant feeling forms in your throat, your
chest feels tighter, now a sudden shortness of breath, and what
do you know-your heart skips a beat. “Please, God, not
here.”
A quick scan of
the territory-is it threatening? Four unfriendly faces queue
behind, one person in front. Pins and needles seem to prick you
through your left arm, you feel slightly dizzy, and then the
explosion of fear as you dread the worst. You are about to have
a panic attack.
There is no doubt
in your mind now that this is going to be a big one. Okay,
focus: Remember what you have been taught, and it is time now
to apply the coping techniques. Begin the deep breathing
exercise your doctor recommended. In through the nose, out
through the mouth.
Think relaxing
thoughts, and again, while breathing in, think “Relax,” and
then breathe out. But it doesn’t seem to be having any positive
effect; in fact, just concentrating on breathing is making you
feel self-conscious and more uptight.
Okay, coping
technique 2:
Gradual muscle
relaxation. Tense both shoulders, hold for 10 seconds, then
release. Try it again. No; still no difference. The anxiety is
getting worse and the very fact that you are out of coping
techniques worsens your panic. If only you were surrounded by
your family, or a close friend were beside you so you could
feel more confident in dealing with this situation.
Now, the
adrenaline is really pumping through your system, your body is
tingling with uncomfortable sensations, and now the dreaded
feeling of losing complete control engulfs your emotions. No
one around you has any idea of the sheer terror you are
experiencing. For them, it’s just a regular day and another
frustratingly slow queue in the supermarket.
You are out of
options. Time for Plan C.
The most basic
coping skill of all is “fleeing.” Excuse yourself from the
queue; you are slightly embarrassed as it is now that it is
your turn to pay. The cashier is looking bewildered as you
leave your shopping behind and stroll towards the door. There
is no time for excuses-you need to be alone. You leave the
supermarket and get into your car to ride it out alone. Could
this be the big one? The one you fear will push you over the
edge mentally and physically. Ten minutes later the panic
subsides.
It’s 10:30 a.m.
How are you going to make it through the rest of the
day?
If you suffer
from panic or anxiety attacks, the above scenerio probably
sounds very familiar. It may have even induced feelings of
anxiety and panic just reading it. The particular situations
that trigger your panic and anxiety may differ; maybe the
bodily sensations are a little different. Or maybe it happened
to you for the first time on a plane, in the dentist chair, or
even at home, while doing nothing in particular.
If you have ever
had what has become known as a “panic attack,” take comfort in
the fact that you are by no means alone.
A panic attack
always comes with the acute sense of impending doom. You feel
you are either about to lose your mind or one of your vital
bodily functions is about to cease functioning and you will end
your days right there among the canned goods and frozen
food.
You are by no
means alone; you’re not even one in a million. In America, it
is estimated that almost 5% of the population suffer from some
form of anxiety disorder. For some, it may be the infrequent
panic attacks that only crop up in particular situations-like
when having to speak in front of others, while, for other
people, it can be so frequent and recurring that it inhibits
them from leaving their home. Frequent panic attacks often
develop into what medical physicians refer to as an “anxiety
disorder.”
One of the first
steps to regaining control of your life is getting helpful
information. This site will give you that, and more.
The beginning of
your recovery starts here. What you will learn is that there is
a very good chance you are about to end the cycle of panic
attacks in your life. You will learn not only to regain the
carefree life you remember once having, but will also gain new
confidence in living. Your answer to living free from “panic”
or “anxiety attacks” is at hand.
This site
demonstrates that the panic and anxiety that you have
experienced will be the very key to your courage and
success.
Begin the road to
recovery by browsing through the site. While many of you may
have read almost everything you can possibly read relating to
panic and anxiety I assure you this site offers something very
effective.
Did you
know...?
The key
difference between someone who is cured of panic attacks and
those who are not is really very simple. The people who are
cured no longer fear panic attacks. I’ll try to show you how to
be one of these people as well.
What if I told
you the trick to ending panic and anxiety attacks is to want to
have one. That sounds strange, even contradictory, but let me
explain.
The trick to
panic attacks is wanting to have one-the wanting pushes it
away. Can you have a panic attack in this very second?
No!
You know the
saying that "what you resist, persists." Well that saying
applies perfectly to fear. If you resist a situation out of
fear, the fear around that issue will persist. How do you stop
resisting-you move directly into it, into the path of the
anxiety, and by doing so it cannot persist.
In essence what
this means is that if you daily voluntarily seek to have a
panic attack, you cannot have one. Try in this very moment to
have a panic attack and I will guarantee you cannot. You may
not realize it but you have always decided to panic. You make
the choice by saying this is beyond my control.
Another way to
appreciate this is to imagine having a panic attack as like
standing on a cliff's edge. The anxiety seemingly pushes you
closer to falling over the edge.
To be rid of the
fear you must metaphorically jump. You must jump off the cliff
edge and into the anxiety and fear and all the things that you
fear most.
How do you jump?
You jump by wanting to have a panic attack. You go about your
day asking for anxiety and panic attacks to appear.
Your real safety
is the fact that a panic attack will never harm you. That is
medical fact. You are safe, the sensations are wild but no harm
will come to you. Your heart is racing but no harm will come to
you. The jump becomes nothing more than a two foot drop!
Perfectly safe.
Learn
more
http://www.AnxietyAttacksTreatment.com
Joe Barry is an international panic disorder
coach. His informative site on all issues related to panic and
anxiety attacks can be found here:http://www.AnxietyAttacksTreatment.com
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